Anger

If any of you read my blog out there, I would like some advice. Anger is a secondary emotion of course and I understand that. I am trying to find a way to get the anger and the pain to go away. I have been unable to find a way to do this...so I am asking all of you to give me your advice, how do I get over these things that were done? The betrayal by those that are supposed to be safe people?